Yin Yang Mix Up DMs

日柱陰錯陽差日，註定姻緣不好嗎？

DM with Yin Yang Mix Up, Destined to have failed marriages?  

樂城安在某討論區看過以上的題目，發題者的問題如下：

XXX saw from a forum regarding the above mentioned topic, the questions asked are: 

陰錯陽差日的男女，是不是感情運挫折多呢？

Men and Women with Yin Yang Mix Up, is it true that they will have turbulent relationships?
是不是得不到好姻緣呢？

Is it true that they will not have good marriages?
是不是前世做了什麼，今世才會如此呢？

Is it due to past life's bad karma, that they have this problem in this life?
請高手們或有經驗的人回答，謝謝！

Masters or people with experience please respond, thanks!
這有方法可以化解嗎？ 

Is there any solution? 

首先，正確學名應是陰差陽錯日，非陰錯陽差日！

First, the correct name is Yin difference/discrepancy and Yang incorrect/wrong.  

陰差陽錯日，即八字中的日柱為丙子、丙午、丁丑、丁未、戊;寅、戊申、辛卯、辛酉、壬辰、壬戌、癸巳、癸亥等等！

Yin Yang Mix Up, are the following DMs, Bing Zi, Bing Wu, Ding Chou, Ding Wei, Wu Yin, Wu Shen, Xin Mao, Xin You, Ren Chen, Ren Xu, Gui Si, Gui Hai!

命犯陰差陽錯日，不會直接影響 夫妻的感情，但易與配偶的父母(即岳丈岳母、家翁家姑)不咬弦！

People with such DMs, will not directly affect the marriage, but the problem is not getting along with the spouse's parents (in laws).

須與岳丈岳母或家翁家姑分開住，平常多點關心他們！

Need to live separately from the in laws, but need to occasionally send your regards.  

由於古時的人婚後必須與家翁家姑(或岳丈岳母)同住，形成日夜爭吵、家嘈屋閉，間接影響了夫妻的感情！ 而古時的婚姻是父母之命，媒妁之言，一個不討父母歡心的妻子，隨時會被休，所以婆媳不和與離婚，幾乎就劃了等號！亦由於這個原因，陰差陽錯，就被人直接說成姻緣差！

In the old China days, people must live with in laws, so people with such DMs will constantly argue with the in laws day and night, therefore affecting the marriage!  Moreover, in old China days, marriage are arranged by parents and matchmakers, a wife who can not please the husbands parents, are in danger of getting divorced by the husband, that's why in the old days, when the wife and the mother do not get along equates to divorce!  It is also because of this reason, Yin Yang Mix up became directly associated with bad marriage!  

時移世易， 現代社會，跟古時已有很大程度的分別；現代人於婚後，多數組織小康之家、二人世界，根本少有婆媳不和的情形出現，所以，陰差陽錯日直接影響婚姻的機會相對減少了很多！

總結一句，命犯陰差陽錯，可考慮與岳丈岳母或家翁家姑分開住，減少磨擦！

Times have changed, modern society is extremely different from old China days; people in modern days usually will set up their own family away from the parents, with only husband and wife, it's very rare to have mother and daughter in law disputes, that's why, chances of Yin Yang Mix Up affecting marriage is greatly reduced! 

In summary, people with Yin Yang Mix Up, should definitely live separately from the in laws to reduce friction!

Source: http://www.hk-fortuneteller.com/difference_false_day.htm